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Wedding Party Gifts

Give them at the rehearsal dinner or the morning of. The gifts people keep are the ones they use: a good tumbler, a proper dopp kit, a robe for the morning.

45 products, each chosen by I Do with a note on why.

Prices marked ~ are estimates. Check the retailer for current prices and availability.

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  • Insulated Tumbler (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: YETI Rambler 20 oz Tumbler with MagSlider Lid

    The gift that gets used every day at the desk and in the car.

    ~$35 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Insulated Tumbler (opens in a new tab)
  • Insulated Water Bottles (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: 32oz Wide Mouth Bottle

    For the honeymoon, and everywhere after it.

    ~$45 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Insulated Water Bottles (opens in a new tab)
  • Matching Sunglasses (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: goodr OG Polarized Sunglasses

    One pair per party member in the same colour for the outdoor ceremony, the bachelor trip and the group photo.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Matching Sunglasses (opens in a new tab)
  • Weekender Duffel (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Herschel Heritage Duffel, 40L

    A weekender for each party member that gets packed for the bachelor trip and every trip after.

    ~$100 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Weekender Duffel (opens in a new tab)
  • Speech Note Cards (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: H4D Index Card Case with 100 Cards

    A toast read off a phone looks bad in photos, and phones lock mid-sentence.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Speech Note Cards (opens in a new tab)
  • Audible Gift Membership (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Audible

    A thank-you for a parent, your officiant or the friend who drives everywhere: months of audiobooks they…

    Prepaid gift membership

    View on Amazon: Audible Gift Membership (opens in a new tab)
  • Kindle Unlimited Gift Membership (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Amazon

    For the reader in your life: months of books on their Kindle or the Kindle app, chosen by them.

    Prepaid gift membership

    View on Amazon: Kindle Unlimited Gift Membership (opens in a new tab)
  • Custom Bobbleheads (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Yolie Custom Bobblehead from a Photo

    Your groomsmen, as handmade bobbleheads from a photo.

    With your photo

    ~$60 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Custom Bobbleheads (opens in a new tab)

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Don't forget, nothing to buy

  • Local engravers put a name on a tumbler, glass or knife for about $10; the plain product plus a local engraver is always an option.
  • The best man and maid of honor usually get something a tier above; buy the upgrade version of whatever the party gets.
  • Personalized items can take longer. Check the delivery estimate on the listing and order early.

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  • Personalized Bridesmaid Hanger (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Wooden Hanger with Name and Title (per person)

    Every dress in the dress photo, each on a hanger with its bridesmaid's name.

    With her name and role

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Bridesmaid Hanger (opens in a new tab)
  • Personalized Groomsman Hanger (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Andaz Press Custom Suit Hanger (per person)

    The suit hanger with his name and role, so the groomsmen's suits photograph as well as the dresses.

    With his name and role

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Groomsman Hanger (opens in a new tab)
  • Personalized Bridesmaid Robes (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Robes with Name or Title, S to 5XL

    Getting ready together, each in a robe with her name or role.

    With her name and role

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Bridesmaid Robes (opens in a new tab)
  • Personalized Bridesmaid Tumblers (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Tumblers with Name and Title, Set of 5

    A tumbler each, with her name and role.

    With her name and role

    ~$65 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Bridesmaid Tumblers (opens in a new tab)
  • Personalized Groomsmen Tumblers (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Engraved Tumblers with Name and Title, Set of 6

    The groomsmen's version: a tumbler each with his name and role.

    With his name and role

    ~$120 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Groomsmen Tumblers (opens in a new tab)
  • Engraved Groomsmen Tie Clips (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: EDSG Engraved Stainless Tie Bar

    The tie clip with his initials or the date engraved on it.

    With his initials and date

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Engraved Groomsmen Tie Clips (opens in a new tab)
  • Initial Cufflinks (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Stainless Steel Initial Cufflinks

    Cufflinks with his initial, chosen on the listing.

    Can carry your initials

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Initial Cufflinks (opens in a new tab)
  • Bridesmaid Initial Makeup Bag (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Vavabox A to Z Initial Makeup Bag

    Her initial on a makeup bag she will use for years.

    Can carry her initials

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Bridesmaid Initial Makeup Bag (opens in a new tab)
  • Bridesmaid Monogram Tote (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Personalized Monogram Canvas Tote

    A canvas tote with her monogram, for carrying everything on the morning of and every day after.

    With her name and initials

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Bridesmaid Monogram Tote (opens in a new tab)
  • Groomsman Playing Cards, Personalized (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Monogrammed Deck of Playing Cards

    A deck with his initials for each groomsman, or for the card table on the bachelor weekend.

    With his name and initials

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Groomsman Playing Cards, Personalized (opens in a new tab)
  • Engraved Groomsmen Flasks (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Personalized Groomsmen Flasks, Set of 6

    A classic groomsmen gift.

    With his name and role

    ~$65 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Engraved Groomsmen Flasks (opens in a new tab)

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  • Best Man Whiskey Decanter Set (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Engraved Whiskey Decanter with Glasses and Box

    The tier-above gift for the best man, or a thank-you for a father: a decanter and glasses engraved with his…

    With his name and initials

    ~$90 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Best Man Whiskey Decanter Set (opens in a new tab)
  • Best Man Bottle Opener (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Engraved Best Man Bottle Opener

    A heavy bottle opener engraved Best Man, for the ask or the thank-you.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Best Man Bottle Opener (opens in a new tab)

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  • Groomsmen Dopp Kit (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Herschel Chapter Travel Kit

    The groomsmen gift that survives the wedding: a proper toiletry bag that goes on every trip after.

    ~$45 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Groomsmen Dopp Kit (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Personalized Groomsman Dopp Kit (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Engraved Leather Toiletry Bag

    A leather dopp kit with his name or initials, about half the price of the Herschel one.

    With his name and initials

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Groomsman Dopp Kit (opens in a new tab)
  • Shoe Shine Kit (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: FootMatters Shoe Shine Valet Box

    New dress shoes arrive scuffed from the box and rentals arrive worse.

    ~$50 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Shoe Shine Kit (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Instant Shine Sponge (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Kiwi Express Shine Sponge

    Lives in the best man's pocket for grass scuffs between the ceremony photos and the reception.

    ~$5 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Instant Shine Sponge (opens in a new tab)
  • Matching Neckties (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: TIE G Satin Necktie and Pocket Square Set

    One solid tie per groomsman in the wedding colour, with the matching pocket square already in a gift box.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Matching Neckties (opens in a new tab)
  • Folding Pocket Knife (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Opinel No. 08 Stainless Folding Knife

    A hundred-year-old French design with a beech handle that takes engraving beautifully.

    ~$25 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Folding Pocket Knife (opens in a new tab)
  • Multitool (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Leatherman Skeletool CX Multitool

    The knife alternative nobody objects to: pliers, a blade.

    ~$100 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Multitool (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Budget Multitool (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Gerber Suspension NXT Multitool

    The same idea at a third of the price, with 15 tools and a pocket clip.

    ~$40 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Budget Multitool (opens in a new tab)
  • Slim Leather Wallet (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Bellroy Slim Sleeve Wallet

    Touched several times a day for years, which is why it tops every list of gifts groomsmen still use.

    ~$85 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Slim Leather Wallet (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Slim Bifold Wallet (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Vaultskin Manhattan Slim Bifold Wallet

    A slim leather bifold at half the price, with RFID blocking and room for a few more cards.

    ~$45 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Slim Bifold Wallet (opens in a new tab)
  • Tie Clip (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: MOZETO Tie Clip Set

    Keeps the tie in place through hugs, dancing and a long day of photos.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Tie Clip (opens in a new tab)
  • Pocket Square Set (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: KissTies Satin Pocket Squares, Set of 6

    A matching set across the wedding party in one colour, chosen from a wide swatch range.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Pocket Square Set (opens in a new tab)
  • Groomsmen Socks (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Groomsmen Sock Set, 8 Pairs

    Fun socks are the easiest groomsmen gift to get right.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Groomsmen Socks (opens in a new tab)
  • Pre-Tied Bow Ties (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: JEMYGINS Solid Pre-Tied Bow Tie

    A pre-tied, adjustable bow tie for each groomsman so nobody is learning a knot at nine in the morning.

    ~$5 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Pre-Tied Bow Ties (opens in a new tab)
  • Heavy-Base Rocks Glasses (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Bormioli Rocco Sorgente Rocks Glasses, Set of 6

    A plain, heavy Italian rocks glass that comes out at every gathering after the wedding.

    ~$40 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Heavy-Base Rocks Glasses (opens in a new tab)
  • Whiskey Stones and Glasses Set (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Whiskey Stones Gift Set with Two Glasses

    A boxed set of chilling stones and two glasses: a father or best man gift with a lot of happy owners.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Whiskey Stones and Glasses Set (opens in a new tab)
  • Custom Face Socks (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Socks Printed with a Photo

    The groom's face on the groomsmen's socks.

    With your photo

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Custom Face Socks (opens in a new tab)

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  • Matching Button-Up Pajamas (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Ekouaer Button-Up Pajama Set

    Button-front sets come off without touching hair or makeup.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Matching Button-Up Pajamas (opens in a new tab)
  • Waffle Knit Robes (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Turkish Linen Waffle Knit Short Kimono Robe

    A robe that gets worn at home afterward, instead of thin satin worn for one hour of photos.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Waffle Knit Robes (opens in a new tab)
  • Cosmetic Bag Set (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: SOIDRAM Corduroy Cosmetic Bags, Blue, Set of 6

    A lined, zippered bag for each bridesmaid that travels on every trip after the wedding.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Cosmetic Bag Set (opens in a new tab)
  • Silk Pillowcase (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: J JIMOO 22 Momme Mulberry Silk Pillowcase

    No sleep creases and no frizz on the morning your photos are taken.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Silk Pillowcase (opens in a new tab)
  • Pearl Studs (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: PAVOI Freshwater Pearl Studs, 14k Plated

    Small real pearls: the simplest bridal earring, and a bridesmaid gift that gets worn again.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Pearl Studs (opens in a new tab)
  • Tennis Bracelet (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: PAVOI 3 mm CZ Tennis Bracelet, White Gold Plated

    A classic tennis bracelet for the bride, or a bridesmaid gift she will actually wear.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Tennis Bracelet (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Pearl Bracelet (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Pearl Bracelet, Gold or Silver Plated

    The pearl version of the bracelet, to match pearl earrings.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Pearl Bracelet (opens in a new tab)

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