Terms of Service

I Do helps couples plan their wedding: a checklist and budget, a guest list and RSVPs, a wedding website, a registry, a wedding shop, printed stationery, and Abigail, our AI planning assistant. Some of it is free; the paid parts are described under “Purchases, free trials and billing” and “Printed stationery.”

I Do is not a licensed wedding planner, event coordinator, lawyer or financial advisor, and not a vendor, booking agent or broker. It doesn’t make bookings, sign contracts or enter into agreements for you. Your relationships and payments with vendors are between you and them.

• You must be at least 18 to create an account.
• Keep your password safe, and tell us at once at alan@themetelyk.com if you think someone else has used your account.
• You’re responsible for what happens in your account, including by people you invite to plan with you.

You own what you add to I Do: text, photos, designs, music choices and other content (“your content”). You give I Do a non-exclusive, worldwide, royalty-free licence to host, store, copy, resize, crop, format, display and print your content, only to provide I Do to you and the people you share it with. That includes showing a wedding website you publish to anyone who has its address, and printing and mailing stationery you order. The licence ends when you delete the content or your account, except for copies in backups for a limited time and files kept with a paid stationery order as our Privacy Policy explains. We don’t claim ownership of your content, and we won’t use your photos in our marketing without your permission.

You’re responsible for having the right to use your content, including photos of other people, music, and other people’s writing.

When you add guests’ names, contact details, addresses, RSVP answers or other details to I Do, or ask guests for them, use them only to plan your wedding and respect your guests’ privacy. Only ask for what you need: for example, ask about dietary or accessibility needs only if you’ll use the answers to plan. We handle this information as our Privacy Policy describes, and we don’t use it to market to your guests. Your responsibilities here don’t reduce ours.

A wedding website you publish can be seen by anyone who has its address. We ask search engines not to index wedding websites, but we can’t stop people from sharing the address. You can unpublish your website at any time.

Don’t use I Do, including a wedding website, to:

• post or send anything unlawful, infringing, harassing, hateful or sexually explicit, or anything that exploits or endangers minors;
• impersonate anyone, mislead people, or commit fraud;
• collect other people’s information without their knowledge, or send spam;
• access other people’s accounts or data, scrape or systematically extract data from I Do, or reverse-engineer it;
• upload malicious code, or disrupt or overload I Do.

If something breaks these rules, we may remove the content, unpublish a website, or suspend the account, in proportion to the problem. We’ll tell you why unless the law or someone’s safety prevents it.

If you believe content on I Do infringes your copyright, send a notice to us at alan@themetelyk.com, with “Copyright notice” in the subject. Include: your physical or electronic signature; the work you believe is infringed; the material and where it is (for example, the wedding website address); your contact details; a statement that you believe in good faith the use isn’t authorized by the owner, its agent or the law; and a statement, under penalty of perjury, that your notice is accurate and that you’re the owner or authorized to act for the owner.

If we remove your content after a notice and you believe that was a mistake, you can send us a counter-notice with: your signature; the material removed and where it was; a statement, under penalty of perjury, that you believe in good faith it was removed by mistake or misidentification; your name, address and phone number; and your consent to the jurisdiction of the federal court for your address (or, outside the United States, any judicial district where I Do may be found) and to accept service from the person who sent the notice. We may restore the material 10 to 14 business days after we receive it unless the complainant tells us they’ve filed a court action. We close the accounts of people who repeatedly infringe.

Abigail’s suggestions and writing are produced by an AI model and can be incomplete, inaccurate or out of date. Review anything Abigail writes or suggests, including website text, guest list changes and messages, before you rely on it or share it, and check prices, availability and terms with vendors directly. Don’t rely on Abigail for legal, financial or contractual decisions. To answer you, Abigail sends what you ask her, and the parts of your plan she needs, to our AI provider, as the Privacy Policy explains.

• Registry and Wedding Shop links go to other stores. We aren’t a party to what you or your guests buy there: prices, availability, shipping, returns and warranties are the store’s.
• Prices shown in I Do may be estimates (shown as “~$X”) and can differ from the store’s price.
• Some links earn I Do a commission. That doesn’t change your price.
• Cash gifts go directly from guests to you through the payment service you choose. I Do doesn’t receive, hold or transfer that money and can’t reverse or recover it.

Prices and what each purchase includes are shown before you pay. Payments are processed by Stripe; we don’t store your full card number.

• Free trial: the Planner may include a free trial. Its length and scope are shown when it starts.
• The Planner: a one-time purchase. It doesn’t renew.
• Abigail Pro: a subscription that renews automatically every month at the price shown when you subscribe, plus any applicable tax, until you cancel. We show these terms and ask you to agree to them before you pay, and email you a confirmation with them and how to cancel. You can cancel at any time online, in Profile under Plan & upgrades; cancelling stops future payments and you keep Abigail Pro until the end of the period you’ve paid for. We don’t refund partial periods. Any earlier subscription you still have works the same way.
• Refunds: if you think you were charged in error or have a special circumstance, contact us at alan@themetelyk.com and we’ll work with you on a fair resolution.

• Check before you pay: we print the design you approve at checkout and mail it to the names and addresses you give us. Please check names, dates, spelling and addresses first; mistakes in what you approved aren’t our error.
• Cancelling: you can cancel for a full refund until your order goes to the printer (its status shows “Printing”). After that something physical exists, so we can’t cancel it, but contact us and we’ll do what we fairly can.
• Our mistakes: if we, our printer or our mailing service make a mistake printing or mailing your order, we’ll reprint and resend the affected pieces at no charge, or refund them if you prefer, for example when a reprint wouldn’t arrive in time.
• Colour and paper: printed colours and paper can look slightly different from your screen.
• Delivery: delivery dates are estimates. Letter mail isn’t tracked piece by piece, so if pieces don’t arrive or arrive damaged, tell us within 14 days after the last estimated delivery date shown on your order (or within 30 days of the mailing date if none was shown). We’ll look into it. If the mistake was ours, our printer’s or our mailing service’s, we’ll reprint and resend or refund as above. If an address or detail you gave us was wrong, that isn’t our error, but we can reprint at your order’s per-piece price. If we can’t tell what happened, we’ll reprint and remail the missing pieces once at no charge, once per order.
• Fair claims: we may ask for reasonable details, such as which pieces are missing and when you noticed, and we may decline claims that repeat ones already resolved or that we reasonably believe are not genuine.
• Your rights under the law: the time limits and remedies in this section are how we handle problems ourselves. They don’t shorten or replace any right or remedy consumer law gives you.

You can delete your account at any time in Account Settings. We may suspend or close an account, or unpublish a website, if it breaks these Terms or the law or puts others at risk. Where we reasonably can, we’ll tell you first and give you a chance to fix the problem and to download your information. If we close your account for a reason other than a breach of these Terms, we’ll refund the unused part of any subscription period you’ve already paid for, and any stationery order we haven’t started printing. The one-time Planner purchase isn’t a subscription and isn’t refunded in part.

I Do will change over time, and we may add, change or remove features. If we stop offering Abigail Pro or another subscription, or remove a feature that is a main part of it, we’ll tell you in advance and refund the unused part of the period you’ve paid for. The one-time Planner purchase gives you the Planner as we offer it, and its features may change over time. We work to keep I Do available, but we can’t promise it will always be available or free of errors.

Except as these Terms say otherwise, I Do is provided “as is” and “as available,” and we make no other warranties, express or implied, to the extent the law allows.

To the extent the law allows, Metelyk LLC isn’t liable for indirect, incidental, special, consequential or punitive damages, including lost data or lost profits, arising from your use of I Do. Our total liability for any claim arising from these Terms or I Do is limited to the greater of what you paid us in the 12 months before the claim and $100.

Nothing in these Terms limits liability that the law doesn’t allow to be limited, such as liability for fraud, for death or personal injury caused by negligence, or, where applicable, for gross negligence or wilful misconduct.

If someone makes a claim against I Do because of content you posted or your breach of these Terms, you’ll cover I Do’s reasonable costs of that claim. This doesn’t apply to claims caused by I Do’s own fault.

These Terms are governed by the laws of the State of Illinois, without regard to its conflict-of-laws rules. Before bringing a claim, please contact us at alan@themetelyk.com so we can try to resolve it informally within 30 days. Claims may be brought in the state or federal courts located in Illinois, or in small-claims court where you live. If you live outside the United States, you can also bring a claim in your own country’s courts where its law gives you that right.

Our Privacy Policy explains how we handle information. Agreeing to these Terms isn’t consent to optional analytics cookies, advertising measurement or marketing email; you choose those separately.

We may update these Terms. If a change is material, we’ll tell you by email or in the app at least 30 days before it takes effect, or with any longer notice the law requires, and update the date at the top of this page. A change the law requires, or one needed to address a security or legal risk, may take effect sooner where the law allows. If you don’t agree with a change, you can stop using I Do and delete your account before it takes effect. The previous version of these Terms is kept for reference.

Metelyk LLC, alan@themetelyk.com.