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Wedding Day Must-Haves

A short list on purpose: what gets used on the day and cannot be bought on the way. Put one person in charge of the bag, and make it someone who is not getting married.

23 products, each chosen by I Do with a note on why.

Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.

For the ceremony7

  • License Signing Pen (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: uniball 207 Black Gel Pens, 4 Count

    Many counties reject a marriage license signed in gold, blue or erasable ink.

    ~$5 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: License Signing Pen (opens in a new tab)
  • Ring Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Jomelly Wooden Double Ring Box

    A two-slot box for the ceremony and for the ring shots your photographer will want.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Ring Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Engraved Ring Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Engraved Flip-Top Wooden Double Ring Box

    A wooden ring box engraved with your names or initials and the date, for the ceremony and the ring shots.

    With your names and date

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Engraved Ring Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Vow Books (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Leather Vow Books, Set of 2

    Reading from a small book looks better than reading from a phone, and you keep it after.

    ~$25 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Vow Books (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Personalized Vow Books (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Linen Vow Books with Names and Year, Pair

    The vow books, with your names and the year on the covers, kept together afterwards.

    With your names and date

    ~$25 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Vow Books (opens in a new tab)
  • Unplugged Ceremony Sign (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Andaz Press Unplugged Ceremony Acrylic Sign

    Guest phones in the aisle ruin the processional shot; this is the sign photographers ask for.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Unplugged Ceremony Sign (opens in a new tab)
  • Reserved Seat Signs (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Blulu Acrylic Reserved Signs, 6 Pack

    Without them the front row fills with cousins and the parents end up in row four.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Reserved Seat Signs (opens in a new tab)

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Don't forget, nothing to buy

  • The marriage license, and who is bringing it.
  • A printed timeline for the wedding party and vendors, and every vendor's number on one page held by someone who is not you.
  • Your second outfit and the shoes that go with it, if you are changing.
  • Cash for tips and an ID, in the pouch with the license.

For the reception10

  • Rechargeable Candle Lighters (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Flame bird Rechargeable Arc Candle Lighters, 2 Pack

    Someone has to light 80 votives in ten minutes before guests walk in.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Rechargeable Candle Lighters (opens in a new tab)
  • Table Number Stands (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Radezon Tall Table Number Holders, 20 Pack

    Table numbers only work if guests can see them over the centerpiece.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Table Number Stands (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Short Gold Card Holders (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Hoewina 2 in Gold Card and Photo Holders, 26

    Low gold holders for table numbers that sit under the centerpiece rather than above it.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Short Gold Card Holders (opens in a new tab)
  • Card Box with Lock (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Wood Card Box with Lock

    Cards often hold cash.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Card Box with Lock (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Glass Card Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Okllen Glass Card Box with Lock

    A glass box with a lock, for a more modern table.

    ~$35 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Glass Card Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Cake Knife and Server (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Cake Knife and Server Set

    For the cake cutting photo, and plenty of couples use it every anniversary after.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Cake Knife and Server (opens in a new tab)
  • Toasting Flutes (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Lenox Adorn Crystal Flutes, Set of 2

    Your own two flutes show up in every toast and cake-cutting photo and come home as a keepsake.

    ~$70 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Toasting Flutes (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Personalized Toasting Flutes (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Engraved Champagne Flutes, Set of 2

    Your names and date on the flutes you toast with, kept on a shelf afterwards.

    With your names and date

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Toasting Flutes (opens in a new tab)
  • Guest Book and Pen (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Gold Foil Guest Book with Pen and Sign

    Put it somewhere guests pass on the way in, not tucked in a corner.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Guest Book and Pen (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Personalized Guest Book (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Linen Photo Guest Book with Names and Year

    The guest book is the thing you keep forever, so this is the one to personalize: linen.

    With your names and date

    ~$25 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Guest Book (opens in a new tab)

For the whole day6

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