Dinner, toasts and cake

Reception Must-Haves

The card box, the cake knife, the toast and the leftovers. Easy to forget because the venue feels like it should have them. Ask what they provide first.

27 products, each chosen by I Do with a note on why.

Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.

  • Card Box with Lock (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Wood Card Box with Lock

    Cards often hold cash.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Card Box with Lock (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Glass Card Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Okllen Glass Card Box with Lock

    A glass box with a lock, for a more modern table.

    ~$35 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Glass Card Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Cards and Gifts Sign (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: White Arch Acrylic Cards and Gifts Sign

    One sign for the card box, so guests know where the envelopes go.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Cards and Gifts Sign (opens in a new tab)
  • Cake Knife and Server (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Cake Knife and Server Set

    For the cake cutting photo, and plenty of couples use it every anniversary after.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Cake Knife and Server (opens in a new tab)
  • Toasting Flutes (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Lenox Adorn Crystal Flutes, Set of 2

    Your own two flutes show up in every toast and cake-cutting photo and come home as a keepsake.

    ~$70 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Toasting Flutes (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Personalized Toasting Flutes (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Engraved Champagne Flutes, Set of 2

    Your names and date on the flutes you toast with, kept on a shelf afterwards.

    With your names and date

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Toasting Flutes (opens in a new tab)
  • Custom Cake Topper (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Simple & Sentimental Custom Name Cake Topper

    A mirrored Mr and Mrs assumes the couple.

    With your names

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Custom Cake Topper (opens in a new tab)
  • Guest Book and Pen (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Gold Foil Guest Book with Pen and Sign

    Put it somewhere guests pass on the way in, not tucked in a corner.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Guest Book and Pen (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Personalized Guest Book (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Linen Photo Guest Book with Names and Year

    The guest book is the thing you keep forever, so this is the one to personalize: linen.

    With your names and date

    ~$25 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Personalized Guest Book (opens in a new tab)
  • Vendor Tip Envelopes (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Tip Slips Gratuity Envelopes, 20 Pack

    Tips only get handed out if they are counted, labelled by vendor and given to one person before the ceremony.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Vendor Tip Envelopes (opens in a new tab)
  • Tabletop Easels (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Decolore Gold Tabletop Easels, 3 Pack

    The bar menu, the guest book sign, the card box sign and the favor sign all need to stand up.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Tabletop Easels (opens in a new tab)
  • Table Number Stands (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Radezon Tall Table Number Holders, 20 Pack

    Table numbers only work if guests can see them over the centerpiece.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Table Number Stands (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Short Gold Card Holders (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Hoewina 2 in Gold Card and Photo Holders, 26

    Low gold holders for table numbers that sit under the centerpiece rather than above it.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Short Gold Card Holders (opens in a new tab)
  • Archival Signing Pens (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Sakura Pigma Micron 05 Black Pens, 6 Pack

    At a Quaker wedding every person present signs the certificate as a witness.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Archival Signing Pens (opens in a new tab)
  • Glass Drink Dispenser (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: 2 Gallon Glass Beverage Dispenser with Stand

    Ice water with sliced citrus at the ceremony entrance is the first thing every hot-weather guide recommends.

    ~$40 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Glass Drink Dispenser (opens in a new tab)
  • Speech Note Cards (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: H4D Index Card Case with 100 Cards

    A toast read off a phone looks bad in photos, and phones lock mid-sentence.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Speech Note Cards (opens in a new tab)
  • Plastic Champagne Flutes (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Prestee Plastic Champagne Flutes, 100 Count

    For the toast or the send-off when the venue does not supply glassware.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Plastic Champagne Flutes (opens in a new tab)
  • Mr and Mrs Cake Topper (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Mirrored Mr and Mrs Cake Topper

    A simple mirrored topper for the cake-cutting photo.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Mr and Mrs Cake Topper (opens in a new tab)
  • Cake To-Go Boxes (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Moretoes Small Bakery Boxes, 50 Pack

    Guests leave before cake or take one bite.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Cake To-Go Boxes (opens in a new tab)
  • Top-Tier Cake Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Vorfre 10 x 10 x 8 in Cake Boxes with Cake Boards, 3 Pack

    Saving the top tier for your first anniversary takes a sturdy box and someone assigned to take it home.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Top-Tier Cake Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Leftover Containers, 32 oz (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Freshware 32 oz Deli Containers with Lids, 24 Sets

    Most couples barely eat at their own reception.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Leftover Containers, 32 oz (opens in a new tab)
  • Guest Charging Station (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Zobirez 10-Port Charging Station, White

    A charging shelf by the bar with a small sign keeps guests' phones alive for the send-off and the photo uploa.

    ~$45 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Guest Charging Station (opens in a new tab)
  • Late-Night Snack Cups (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: CAMKYDE Paper Fry Cups, 100 Pack

    Late-night food revives a dance floor every time, and plain kraft cups make fries.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Late-Night Snack Cups (opens in a new tab)
  • Mr and Mrs Cocktail Napkins (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Gold Foil Mr and Mrs Cocktail Napkins, 100

    Every bar needs napkins; these say whose wedding it is.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Mr and Mrs Cocktail Napkins (opens in a new tab)
  • Another option

    Custom Cocktail Napkins (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Personalized 3-Ply Cocktail Napkins, 100

    Your names and date on every napkin at the bar.

    With your names and date

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Custom Cocktail Napkins (opens in a new tab)
  • Sweetheart Table Sign (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Personalized Mr and Mrs Sweetheart Table Sign

    The one sign in front of the two of you all night, and in the background of every toast photo.

    With your names and new surname

    ~$25 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Sweetheart Table Sign (opens in a new tab)
  • Wood Cake Stand with Dome (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Acacia Wood Cake Stand with Glass Lid, 12in Magnetic Base

    Makes an ordinary cake look like it was the plan all along.

    ~$45 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Wood Cake Stand with Dome (opens in a new tab)

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Don't forget, nothing to buy

  • Ask what the venue supplies before buying flutes, cake boxes or serviceware; many do, and some charge if you bring your own.
  • Assign one person to the card box and one to the guest book station; unattended stations go half used.

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