Groom Essentials
Collars that stay put, a shirt that stays tucked, shoes that survive the grass. Nobody notices any of it, which is the point.
43 products, each chosen by I Do with a note on why.
Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
Suit details24
Magnetic Collar Stays (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Wurkin Stiffs Magnetic Collar Stays
Collar points curl under a jacket, especially on rental shirts missing their stays.
View on Amazon: Magnetic Collar Stays (opens in a new tab)~$20 (approximate)
Why this?
Magnetic Collar Stays
Our pick: Wurkin Stiffs Magnetic Collar Stays
Collar points curl under a jacket, especially on rental shirts missing their stays. A magnet on the inside of the collar holds it flat through every hug in the receiving line.
~$20 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Shirt Stays (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: World's Best Shirt Stays, 1 Pair
The most common groom regret is a shirt that untucks and bunches at the waist during the ceremony and dancing.
View on Amazon: Shirt Stays (opens in a new tab)~$25 (approximate)
Why this?
Shirt Stays
Our pick: World's Best Shirt Stays, 1 Pair
The most common groom regret is a shirt that untucks and bunches at the waist during the ceremony and dancing. These clip to the shirttail and the socks and keep it flat all night. Try them on with the shoes a week before.
~$25 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Boutonniere Magnets (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: BoutStix Floral Magnets
Pinning a boutonniere through a lapel takes five fumbling minutes and leaves holes.
View on Amazon: Boutonniere Magnets (opens in a new tab)~$25 (approximate)
Why this?
Boutonniere Magnets
Our pick: BoutStix Floral Magnets
Pinning a boutonniere through a lapel takes five fumbling minutes and leaves holes; a magnet takes two seconds. Count the groom, groomsmen, fathers, grandfathers and ring bearer. Magnets grip poorly on very thick wool, and anyone with a pacemaker should use pins instead.
~$25 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Cotton Handkerchiefs (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: RDS Hankytex Cotton Handkerchiefs, 6 Pack
Grooms cry at the first look and fathers at the vows, and a silk pocket square is decorative.
View on Amazon: Cotton Handkerchiefs (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Cotton Handkerchiefs
Our pick: RDS Hankytex Cotton Handkerchiefs, 6 Pack
Grooms cry at the first look and fathers at the vows, and a silk pocket square is decorative. Six plain white cotton hankies cover the groom, both fathers, the best man and two spares. Wash and press them once before the day.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Suit Garment Bag (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Simple Houseware Travel Garment Bag, 43 Inch
Gets the suit from the tailor to the venue and home again without the dry-cleaner plastic that traps moisture.
View on Amazon: Suit Garment Bag (opens in a new tab)~$15 (approximate)
Why this?
Suit Garment Bag
Our pick: Simple Houseware Travel Garment Bag, 43 Inch
Gets the suit from the tailor to the venue and home again without the dry-cleaner plastic that traps moisture and wrinkles. The pockets take shoes and the stud box. Buy one per groomsman if the suits travel together.
~$15 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Sweat-Proof Undershirt (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Thompson Tee Sweatproof Undershirt, Deep V
Nerves, a wool suit and an August ceremony show as pit marks by the first dance on a normal undershirt.
View on Amazon: Sweat-Proof Undershirt (opens in a new tab)~$40 (approximate)
Why this?
Sweat-Proof Undershirt
Our pick: Thompson Tee Sweatproof Undershirt, Deep V
Nerves, a wool suit and an August ceremony show as pit marks by the first dance on a normal undershirt. A barrier layer keeps the dress shirt dry. Deep V so it hides under an open collar; read the size chart, and buy two for a heavy sweater.
~$40 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Boutonniere Pins (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Outus Pearl Head Boutonniere Pins, 100 Pack
Florists include one pin per boutonniere and one is never enough after the first hug.
View on Amazon: Boutonniere Pins (opens in a new tab)~$5 (approximate)
Why this?
Boutonniere Pins
Our pick: Outus Pearl Head Boutonniere Pins, 100 Pack
Florists include one pin per boutonniere and one is never enough after the first hug. Plan on two pins per boutonniere plus spares, and keep a few in the emergency kit since a pearl-head pin also fixes a slipping sash.
~$5 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Lint Roller (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Scotch-Brite Mini Travel Lint Roller
Dark suits and dresses pick up everything.
View on Amazon: Lint Roller (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Lint Roller
Our pick: Scotch-Brite Mini Travel Lint Roller
Dark suits and dresses pick up everything. A travel roller lives in a pocket.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Wide Suit Hangers (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: HOUSE DAY Wooden Suit Hangers, 2 Pack
A wide wooden hanger keeps the jacket shoulders in shape between the tailor and the ceremony.
View on Amazon: Wide Suit Hangers (opens in a new tab)~$20 (approximate)
Why this?
Wide Suit Hangers
Our pick: HOUSE DAY Wooden Suit Hangers, 2 Pack
A wide wooden hanger keeps the jacket shoulders in shape between the tailor and the ceremony, and it is what the photographer shoots at 9 a.m. Two in the pack: one for the groom, one for the best man.
~$20 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Personalized Groomsman Hanger (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Andaz Press Custom Suit Hanger (per person)
The suit hanger with his name and role, so the groomsmen's suits photograph as well as the dresses.
With his name and role
View on Amazon: Personalized Groomsman Hanger (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Personalized Groomsman Hanger
Our pick: Andaz Press Custom Suit Hanger (per person)
The suit hanger with his name and role, so the groomsmen's suits photograph as well as the dresses. Order one per person.
Make it yours
Made to order with names and a role, like Maid of Honor or Best Man. You add the details on the listing before you order.
Personalized items can take longer, and the options you choose can change the price and whether it can be returned. Check the shop's current options and delivery estimate, and order early.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Classic Cufflinks (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Honey Bear Twist Knot Cufflinks, 1 Pair
A plain silver knot is the pair a groom wears again, and the only way to close a French-cuff shirt.
View on Amazon: Classic Cufflinks (opens in a new tab)~$15 (approximate)
Why this?
Classic Cufflinks
Our pick: Honey Bear Twist Knot Cufflinks, 1 Pair
A plain silver knot is the pair a groom wears again, and the only way to close a French-cuff shirt. Check the shirt cuffs before the wedding week; not every dress shirt takes cufflinks.
~$15 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Initial Cufflinks (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Stainless Steel Initial Cufflinks
Cufflinks with his initial, chosen on the listing.
Can carry your initials
View on Amazon: Initial Cufflinks (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Initial Cufflinks
Our pick: Stainless Steel Initial Cufflinks
Cufflinks with his initial, chosen on the listing. Over five thousand ratings.
Make it yours
It can carry initials, or come plain. You choose on the listing.
Personalized items can take longer, and the options you choose can change the price and whether it can be returned. Check the shop's current options and delivery estimate, and order early.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Tie Clip (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: MOZETO Tie Clip Set
Keeps the tie in place through hugs, dancing and a long day of photos.
View on Amazon: Tie Clip (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Tie Clip
Our pick: MOZETO Tie Clip Set
Keeps the tie in place through hugs, dancing and a long day of photos.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Engraved Groomsmen Tie Clips (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: EDSG Engraved Stainless Tie Bar
The tie clip with his initials or the date engraved on it.
With his initials and date
View on Amazon: Engraved Groomsmen Tie Clips (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Engraved Groomsmen Tie Clips
Our pick: EDSG Engraved Stainless Tie Bar
The tie clip with his initials or the date engraved on it. Order one per groomsman.
Make it yours
Made to order with initials and the wedding date. You add the details on the listing before you order.
Personalized items can take longer, and the options you choose can change the price and whether it can be returned. Check the shop's current options and delivery estimate, and order early.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Pocket Square Set (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: KissTies Satin Pocket Squares, Set of 6
A matching set across the wedding party in one colour, chosen from a wide swatch range.
View on Amazon: Pocket Square Set (opens in a new tab)~$15 (approximate)
Why this?
Pocket Square Set
Our pick: KissTies Satin Pocket Squares, Set of 6
A matching set across the wedding party in one colour, chosen from a wide swatch range. Six covers the groom and five groomsmen; order a second set for fathers if you want them to match.
~$15 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Dress Socks (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Falari Black Dress Socks, 5 Pack
Easy to forget and very visible when you sit.
View on Amazon: Dress Socks (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Dress Socks
Our pick: Falari Black Dress Socks, 5 Pack
Easy to forget and very visible when you sit. Some couples match the whole wedding party.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Button Suspenders (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: HOLD'EM Tuxedo Button Suspenders
Tuxedo trousers and many wedding suits are made for suspenders, and a belt under a waistcoat looks wrong.
View on Amazon: Button Suspenders (opens in a new tab)~$30 (approximate)
Why this?
Button Suspenders
Our pick: HOLD'EM Tuxedo Button Suspenders
Tuxedo trousers and many wedding suits are made for suspenders, and a belt under a waistcoat looks wrong. These button on; a tailor adds the buttons for a few dollars. Rentals usually need the clip-on kind.
~$30 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Another option
Convertible Suspenders (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Tommy Hilfiger Convertible Suspenders
Clips or buttons, so they work on a rental with no suspender buttons and on your own trousers after.
View on Amazon: Convertible Suspenders (opens in a new tab)~$30 (approximate)
Why this?
Convertible Suspenders
Our pick: Tommy Hilfiger Convertible Suspenders
Another option to Button Suspenders, for a different style or budget.
Clips or buttons, so they work on a rental with no suspender buttons and on your own trousers after. The practical choice when the tux is not yours.
~$30 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Tuxedo Stud Set (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Black Onyx Tuxedo Studs and Cufflinks Set
Only for tuxedo weddings.
View on Amazon: Tuxedo Stud Set (opens in a new tab)~$30 (approximate)
Why this?
Tuxedo Stud Set
Our pick: Black Onyx Tuxedo Studs and Cufflinks Set
Only for tuxedo weddings. Tuxedo shirts have no buttons down the front, and rental and online shirts often arrive without studs, discovered while dressing. One set per tux wearer and one spare in the best man's pocket.
~$30 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)No-Sew Hem Tape (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: HeatnBond PeelnStick Fabric Fuse Hem Tape
A hem that comes down on trousers or a bridesmaid dress is a two-minute fix with peel-and-stick hem tape.
View on Amazon: No-Sew Hem Tape (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
No-Sew Hem Tape
Our pick: HeatnBond PeelnStick Fabric Fuse Hem Tape
A hem that comes down on trousers or a bridesmaid dress is a two-minute fix with peel-and-stick hem tape, and no venue has an iron when you need one. This is for seams, not skin; fashion tape does the other job.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Deodorant Mark Sponge (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Gal Pal Deodorant Remover Sponge, 2 Count
Every navy bridesmaid dress and dark jacket picks up a white deodorant streak going over the head.
View on Amazon: Deodorant Mark Sponge (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Deodorant Mark Sponge
Our pick: Gal Pal Deodorant Remover Sponge, 2 Count
Every navy bridesmaid dress and dark jacket picks up a white deodorant streak going over the head, and this dry sponge lifts it off in one swipe with no water. One goes in the emergency kit and one stays with the groomsmen.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Ring Pouch (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Hide & Drink Leather Ring Pouch
The best man is not carrying a wooden double box in his trouser pocket for four hours.
View on Amazon: Ring Pouch (opens in a new tab)~$15 (approximate)
Why this?
Ring Pouch
Our pick: Hide & Drink Leather Ring Pouch
The best man is not carrying a wooden double box in his trouser pocket for four hours. A small flat leather pouch keeps both rings together and out of sight until the officiant asks for them.
~$15 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Suit Carry-On Bag (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Zegur Carry-On Garment Bag
The suit needs the same protection as the gown in a smaller bag.
View on Amazon: Suit Carry-On Bag (opens in a new tab)~$95 (approximate)
Why this?
Suit Carry-On Bag
Our pick: Zegur Carry-On Garment Bag
The suit needs the same protection as the gown in a smaller bag. A bifold with a shoe compartment fits the overhead bin and keeps the jacket from creasing on the way to a destination wedding.
~$95 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Custom Face Socks (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Socks Printed with a Photo
The groom's face on the groomsmen's socks.
With your photo
View on Amazon: Custom Face Socks (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Custom Face Socks
Our pick: Socks Printed with a Photo
The groom's face on the groomsmen's socks. It is the photo everyone takes.
Make it yours
Made to order with a photo. You add the details on the listing before you order.
Personalized items can take longer, and the options you choose can change the price and whether it can be returned. Check the shop's current options and delivery estimate, and order early.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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Don't forget, nothing to buy
- An extra dress shirt for the reception, same neck and sleeve as the ceremony shirt.
- Decant the cologne you already wear into the atomizer; this is not the day to try a new scent.
- If the trousers are for suspenders, have a tailor add the buttons now; it costs a few dollars.
Grooming10
Anti-Chafe Balm (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Body Glide Original Anti-Chafe Balm
A long day, a long dress or wool trousers and eight hours of dancing produce chafe that ruins the…
View on Amazon: Anti-Chafe Balm (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Anti-Chafe Balm
Our pick: Body Glide Original Anti-Chafe Balm
A long day, a long dress or wool trousers and eight hours of dancing produce chafe that ruins the after-party, and a stick applied at 10 a.m. prevents it. One stick covers the whole party and also stops new shoes rubbing at the heel.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Protein Bar Variety Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: RXBAR Protein Bars, 3-Flavor Variety, 10 Count
Chips and cookies leave crumbs and grease on white satin, and a bride who ate nothing faints at the toast.
View on Amazon: Protein Bar Variety Box (opens in a new tab)~$15 (approximate)
Why this?
Protein Bar Variety Box
Our pick: RXBAR Protein Bars, 3-Flavor Variety, 10 Count
Chips and cookies leave crumbs and grease on white satin, and a bride who ate nothing faints at the toast. Protein bars travel, fill people up and do not shed. One box per getting-ready room; these contain nuts, so add a nut-free option for anyone with an allergy.
~$15 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Clinical Antiperspirant (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Certain Dri Clinical Strength Roll-On
Wipes are a refresh, not prevention.
View on Amazon: Clinical Antiperspirant (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Clinical Antiperspirant
Our pick: Certain Dri Clinical Strength Roll-On
Wipes are a refresh, not prevention. Start two weeks before the wedding, applied at night to dry skin, and it stops the sweat rather than covering it. Works for anyone in the party, not only the groom.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Nose and Ear Trimmer (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Panasonic ER-GN30 Nose and Ear Trimmer
The photographer will shoot the groom's face from two feet away at 85mm.
View on Amazon: Nose and Ear Trimmer (opens in a new tab)~$30 (approximate)
Why this?
Nose and Ear Trimmer
Our pick: Panasonic ER-GN30 Nose and Ear Trimmer
The photographer will shoot the groom's face from two feet away at 85mm. One trimmer, used the week before, is the grooming purchase no gift guide mentions.
~$30 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Sunscreen (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Neutrogena Beach Defense Stick SPF 50
A stick applies without streaking makeup and fits in a pocket.
View on Amazon: Sunscreen (opens in a new tab)~$15 (approximate)
Why this?
Sunscreen
Our pick: Neutrogena Beach Defense Stick SPF 50
A stick applies without streaking makeup and fits in a pocket.
~$15 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Deodorant and Body Wipes (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Lume Deodorant Wipes
A quick refresh between the ceremony and the reception.
View on Amazon: Deodorant and Body Wipes (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Deodorant and Body Wipes
Our pick: Lume Deodorant Wipes
A quick refresh between the ceremony and the reception.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Redness Relief Drops (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Lumify Redness Relief Eye Drops, 0.25 oz
A 5 a.m.
View on Amazon: Redness Relief Drops (opens in a new tab)~$20 (approximate)
Why this?
Redness Relief Drops
Our pick: Lumify Redness Relief Eye Drops, 0.25 oz
A 5 a.m. alarm, happy tears and hairspray in the air leave eyes red by the ceremony, and photos make it worse. One drop takes it down in about a minute. Use them before makeup goes on, not after.
~$20 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Travel Perfume Atomizer (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: LISAPACK Refillable Atomizers, 3 Pack
Decant your perfume or cologne into something small enough for a clutch or a jacket.
View on Amazon: Travel Perfume Atomizer (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Travel Perfume Atomizer
Our pick: LISAPACK Refillable Atomizers, 3 Pack
Decant your perfume or cologne into something small enough for a clutch or a jacket.
For cologne touch-ups.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Pocket Comb (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Kent Handmade Pocket Comb
Hair gets messed up.
View on Amazon: Pocket Comb (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Pocket Comb
Our pick: Kent Handmade Pocket Comb
Hair gets messed up. A comb and a little product fix it before photos.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Custom Groom Tumbler (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Engraved Groom Tumbler with Lid
The groom's side of the tumbler family, engraved with his name and the date.
With his name and date
View on Amazon: Custom Groom Tumbler (opens in a new tab)~$20 (approximate)
Why this?
Custom Groom Tumbler
Our pick: Engraved Groom Tumbler with Lid
The groom's side of the tumbler family, engraved with his name and the date.
Make it yours
Made to order with names and the wedding date. You add the details on the listing before you order.
Personalized items can take longer, and the options you choose can change the price and whether it can be returned. Check the shop's current options and delivery estimate, and order early.
~$20 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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Shoes and care8
Shoe Shine Kit (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: FootMatters Shoe Shine Valet Box
New dress shoes arrive scuffed from the box and rentals arrive worse.
View on Amazon: Shoe Shine Kit (opens in a new tab)~$50 (approximate)
Why this?
Shoe Shine Kit
Our pick: FootMatters Shoe Shine Valet Box
New dress shoes arrive scuffed from the box and rentals arrive worse. Ten minutes with polish, a dauber and a horsehair brush the night before shows in every photo of your feet. The box goes on the groom's shelf after the wedding.
~$50 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Another option
Instant Shine Sponge (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Kiwi Express Shine Sponge
Lives in the best man's pocket for grass scuffs between the ceremony photos and the reception.
View on Amazon: Instant Shine Sponge (opens in a new tab)~$5 (approximate)
Why this?
Instant Shine Sponge
Our pick: Kiwi Express Shine Sponge
Another option to Shoe Shine Kit, for a different style or budget.
Lives in the best man's pocket for grass scuffs between the ceremony photos and the reception. Thirty seconds, no mess.
~$5 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Blister Bandages (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Band-Aid Hydrocolloid Blister Bandages
Hours in new shoes.
View on Amazon: Blister Bandages (opens in a new tab)~$5 (approximate)
Why this?
Blister Bandages
Our pick: Band-Aid Hydrocolloid Blister Bandages
Hours in new shoes. Blister cushions keep the second half of the night comfortable.
~$5 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Dress Shoe Insoles (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Dr. Scholl's Air-Pillo Insoles, 1 Pair
Twelve hours in new oxfords needs a thin cushioned insole that does not change how the shoe fits.
View on Amazon: Dress Shoe Insoles (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Dress Shoe Insoles
Our pick: Dr. Scholl's Air-Pillo Insoles, 1 Pair
Twelve hours in new oxfords needs a thin cushioned insole that does not change how the shoe fits. Trim to size and wear them for a day before the wedding so the shoe breaks in with them.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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View on Amazon (opens in a new tab)Anti-Slip Sole Grips (opens Amazon in a new tab)
Our pick: Unikstep Anti-Slip Sole Grips, 5 Pairs
Brand-new leather or satin soles on a polished dance floor is how a first dance goes wrong.
View on Amazon: Anti-Slip Sole Grips (opens in a new tab)~$10 (approximate)
Why this?
Anti-Slip Sole Grips
Our pick: Unikstep Anti-Slip Sole Grips, 5 Pairs
Brand-new leather or satin soles on a polished dance floor is how a first dance goes wrong. Stick the grips on the night before so the adhesive sets, and be aware it can leave a mark on satin soles.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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Our pick: Gel Heel Grip Liners, 4 Pairs
New shoes slip at the heel, and a gel liner stops the walk-up-the-aisle shuffle and the blister that follows.
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Heel Grips
Our pick: Gel Heel Grip Liners, 4 Pairs
New shoes slip at the heel, and a gel liner stops the walk-up-the-aisle shuffle and the blister that follows. Four pairs covers both of you and the groomsman who bought his shoes last week. Fit them the day before so the adhesive sets.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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Our pick: Dr. Scholl's Moleskin Padding Roll
Break in your shoes is universal advice, and moleskin is what makes it survivable.
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Moleskin Padding Roll
Our pick: Dr. Scholl's Moleskin Padding Roll
Break in your shoes is universal advice, and moleskin is what makes it survivable. Cut a patch for wherever the shoe rubs at the heel or toe, on the foot or inside the shoe, and wear the shoes around the house for a week before the wedding.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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Our pick: FootMatters Shoe Stretch Spray, 4 oz
For leather shoes that pinch, a stretch spray softens the leather so a week of wearing them at home does the…
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Shoe Stretch Spray
Our pick: FootMatters Shoe Stretch Spray, 4 oz
Another option to Moleskin Padding Roll, for a different style or budget.
For leather shoes that pinch, a stretch spray softens the leather so a week of wearing them at home does the rest. Spray inside where it is tight, put the shoes on while damp and walk. Not for satin.
~$15 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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Our pick: H4D Index Card Case with 100 Cards
A toast read off a phone looks bad in photos, and phones lock mid-sentence.
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Speech Note Cards
Our pick: H4D Index Card Case with 100 Cards
A toast read off a phone looks bad in photos, and phones lock mid-sentence. Give a few heavy cards and the case to the best man and maid of honor a week out, and keep the rest for your own vows and thank-yous.
~$10 · Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.
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