The ceremony

Ceremony Essentials

Rings, vows, a pen for the license and somewhere for everyone to sit. The rest is up to you.

35 products, each chosen by I Do with a note on why.

Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.

  • Ring Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Jomelly Wooden Double Ring Box

    A two-slot box for the ceremony and for the ring shots your photographer will want.

    ~$10 (approximate)

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  • Another option

    Engraved Ring Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Engraved Flip-Top Wooden Double Ring Box

    A wooden ring box engraved with your names or initials and the date, for the ceremony and the ring shots.

    With your names and date

    ~$15 (approximate)

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  • Vow Books (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Leather Vow Books, Set of 2

    Reading from a small book looks better than reading from a phone, and you keep it after.

    ~$25 (approximate)

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  • Another option

    Personalized Vow Books (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Linen Vow Books with Names and Year, Pair

    The vow books, with your names and the year on the covers, kept together afterwards.

    With your names and date

    ~$25 (approximate)

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  • Officiant Binder (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Officiant Ceremony Book with Pen

    A friend officiating otherwise reads the ceremony off a phone in every photo.

    ~$15 (approximate)

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  • License Signing Pen (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: uniball 207 Black Gel Pens, 4 Count

    Many counties reject a marriage license signed in gold, blue or erasable ink.

    ~$5 (approximate)

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  • Boutonniere Pins (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Outus Pearl Head Boutonniere Pins, 100 Pack

    Florists include one pin per boutonniere and one is never enough after the first hug.

    ~$5 (approximate)

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  • Boutonniere Magnets (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: BoutStix Floral Magnets

    Pinning a boutonniere through a lapel takes five fumbling minutes and leaves holes.

    ~$25 (approximate)

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  • Cotton Handkerchiefs (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: RDS Hankytex Cotton Handkerchiefs, 6 Pack

    Grooms cry at the first look and fathers at the vows, and a silk pocket square is decorative.

    ~$10 (approximate)

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  • Gold Sign Easel (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Gold Adjustable Sign Easel

    Holds the welcome sign or the seating chart.

    ~$30 (approximate)

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  • Custom Welcome Sign (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Personalized Acrylic Welcome Sign, 16 x 24

    The sign at the entrance, with your names and date.

    With your names and date

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Custom Welcome Sign (opens in a new tab)
  • Unplugged Ceremony Sign (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Andaz Press Unplugged Ceremony Acrylic Sign

    Guest phones in the aisle ruin the processional shot; this is the sign photographers ask for.

    ~$15 (approximate)

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  • Reserved Seat Signs (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Blulu Acrylic Reserved Signs, 6 Pack

    Without them the front row fills with cousins and the parents end up in row four.

    ~$10 (approximate)

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  • Clear Bubble Umbrellas (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: totes Clear Bubble Umbrella

    See-through dome umbrellas keep you dry without hiding you from the camera.

    ~$30 (approximate)

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  • Another option

    Scalloped Clear Umbrella (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: ShedRain Scalloped Clear Dome

    The same see-through dome with a scalloped edge.

    ~$25 (approximate)

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  • Paper Parasols (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Aodaer 33 Inch Paper Parasols, 12 Pack

    Where the ceremony site has no tree cover.

    ~$70 (approximate)

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  • Ring Security Kit (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Ring Bearer Security Set with Ring Box

    A badge, dark glasses, an earpiece and a lockable case for the decoy rings.

    ~$20 (approximate)

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  • Ring Bearer Pillow (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: HONEYGIFTS Lace Ring Pillow

    Tie on decoy rings and give the real ones to the best man.

    ~$15 (approximate)

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  • Flower Girl Basket (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Ivory Flower Girl Baskets, Set of 2

    Check whether your venue allows real petals before you fill it.

    ~$20 (approximate)

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  • Ring Pouch (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Hide & Drink Leather Ring Pouch

    The best man is not carrying a wooden double box in his trouser pocket for four hours.

    ~$15 (approximate)

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  • Pocket Tissues (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Kleenex On-The-Go, 8 Packs

    For the vows, the speeches and the first look.

    ~$5 (approximate)

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  • Another option

    Pocket Tissues, 72 Packs (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Kleenex On-The-Go Tissues, 72 Packs

    One on every ceremony seat for the happy tears, or one in every welcome bag.

    ~$20 (approximate)

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  • Bridal Handkerchief (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Milesky White Cotton Lace Handkerchief

    You will cry, a handkerchief photographs where a tissue does not.

    ~$15 (approximate)

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  • LED Pillar Candles (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Antizer Real Wax LED Pillars, Set of 9

    For the aisle, a mantel or the head table.

    ~$25 (approximate)

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  • Hand Fans for Guests (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Sepwedd White Paper Fans, 50 Pack

    For a summer ceremony.

    ~$35 (approximate)

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  • Portable Ceremony PA (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: 100W Portable PA with 2 Wireless Mics

    For a backyard, beach or park ceremony without a DJ.

    ~$200 (approximate)

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  • Microphone Stand (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Amazon Basics Tripod Boom Microphone Stand

    Readers holding a page need both hands, and so does anyone reading vows from a phone.

    ~$25 (approximate)

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  • Ceremony Seat Cushions (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Outdoor Chair Cushions, Set of 4

    Folding chairs and pews get hard around minute twenty.

    ~$40 (approximate)

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  • Luminary Bags (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Homemory White Luminary Bags, 50 Pack

    Paper luminaria lining the aisle or the walk to the reception cost pennies each and read as a design choice.

    ~$20 (approximate)

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  • LED Tealights (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Homemory Flameless Tealights with Remote, 24 Pack

    Most venues ban open flame, and real tealights burn out before the first dance.

    ~$25 (approximate)

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  • Ring Warming Pouch (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Shintop Velvet Drawstring Pouches, 10 Pack

    In a ring warming, the rings pass from guest to guest during the ceremony so each person can hold them and…

    ~$5 (approximate)

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  • Flower Girl Crown (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: DreamLily Camellia Flower Crown, Champagne

    A faux flower crown that makes her look like part of the wedding party.

    ~$15 (approximate)

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  • Dog Tuxedo Collar (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Tuxedo Bandana Collar with Bow Tie

    For the dog walking down the aisle: a tuxedo front with a bow tie, adjustable to most sizes.

    ~$10 (approximate)

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  • Here Comes the Bride Sign (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Acrylic Here Comes the Bride Sign

    Carried down the aisle by the ring bearer or flower girl, a moment before the doors open.

    ~$10 (approximate)

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  • Another option

    Uncle, Here Comes Your Bride Sign (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Personalized Uncle Here Comes Your Bride Sign

    The niece or nephew's version, with their uncle's name.

    With your names

    ~$25 (approximate)

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Don't forget, nothing to buy

  • The marriage license, a black pen for signing it, and the two witnesses who will.
  • Tie decoy rings on the pillow; the real ones stay with the best man.
  • Skip a fabric aisle runner on grass: it bunches, tears in heels and becomes a slip hazard when damp.

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