After the wedding

After the Wedding

The week after is for thank-you notes, backing up photos and deciding what to keep. Do the photos first.

25 products, each chosen by I Do with a note on why.

Prices are approximate and can change. Check the shop for today's price.

Keepsakes and preservation14

  • Dress Storage Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Large Wedding Dress Preservation Box

    Acid-free storage for the dress after it has been cleaned.

    ~$45 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Dress Storage Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Bouquet Drying Silica (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: wisedry Silica Gel Flower Drying Crystals, 5 lb

    Professional preservation costs several hundred dollars.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Bouquet Drying Silica (opens in a new tab)
  • Flower Drying Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: wisedry 10 L Silica Flower Drying Box

    The bouquet dries in the crystals, but only in a sealed container.

    ~$35 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Flower Drying Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Wooden Keepsake Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: DRASTAR Large Acacia Keepsake Box

    Somewhere for the cards, the vow books, the invitation and the dried boutonniere.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Wooden Keepsake Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Photo Album (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Vienrose Linen Photo Album, 300 Pockets

    A slip-in linen album for the printed favourites, the ones you actually flip through.

    ~$10 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Photo Album (opens in a new tab)
  • External SSD (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: SanDisk Extreme Portable SSD, 2TB

    Photographer galleries expire after six to twelve months and the couple's only copy is a download link.

    ~$290 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: External SSD (opens in a new tab)
  • Gusseted Gown Bag (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Sleeping Lamb 72 Inch Gusseted Gown Garment Bag

    Boutique bags are thin and short.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Gusseted Gown Bag (opens in a new tab)
  • Suit Garment Bag (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Simple Houseware Travel Garment Bag, 43 Inch

    Gets the suit from the tailor to the venue and home again without the dry-cleaner plastic that traps moisture.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Suit Garment Bag (opens in a new tab)
  • Wine Box Ceremony (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Twine Newlyweds' Wine and Letter Keepsake Box

    In a wine box ceremony each partner writes a sealed letter, and during the ceremony the letters.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Wine Box Ceremony (opens in a new tab)
  • Cotton Garment Bag (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Acid-Free Cotton Garment Bag, 70 Inch

    The suit, the reception dress and a gown that is not boxed need a cotton bag so the fabric can breathe.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Cotton Garment Bag (opens in a new tab)
  • Keepsake Shadow Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Americanflat Shadow Box Frame, 12x16

    Where the dried bouquet, the invitation suite, a cork and the boutonniere end up as one piece on the wall.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Keepsake Shadow Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Glassware Divider Box (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: LotFancy Stemware Storage Box, 12 Cells

    Thirty bud vases do not survive a car ride loose in a bin.

    ~$20 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Glassware Divider Box (opens in a new tab)
  • Engraved Parent Frame (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Lifetime Creations Engraved 5x7 Wood Frame

    One frame per household, engraved with your names and the date, nothing more.

    With your names and message

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Engraved Parent Frame (opens in a new tab)
  • Ketubah Frame (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Americanflat 20x24 Frame, Matted to 16x20

    Most ketubot are 16x20, and this frame's mat fits one straight away so it can hang the week you are back.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Ketubah Frame (opens in a new tab)

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Don't forget, nothing to buy

  • Get the gown to a cleaner within two weeks, before it goes in the box; a mail-in preservation service is the other path.
  • Order three to five certified copies of the marriage certificate; every name-change step wants one and they take weeks.
  • Name-change kits (NewlyNamed, HitchSwitch) are not Amazon products; the checklist task links to them.
  • Photo thank-you cards come from a print service; the card here is the non-photo option.
  • Thank your vendors with a review; it is the forgotten task they value most.
  • Decor resells at about half price bundled on Marketplace; pack the glassware in the divided boxes and list it the week after.

Thank-yous and admin6

  • Return Address Stamp (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: ExcelMark Custom Self-Inking Stamp, Medium

    Two hundred envelopes twice, invitations and then thank-yous, is where a self-inking stamp earns its place.

    With your names

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Return Address Stamp (opens in a new tab)
  • Thank-You Cards (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Hallmark Thank You Cards, 100-Pack

    Buy more than you think.

    ~$15 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Thank-You Cards (opens in a new tab)
  • Fireproof Document Bag (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Andyer Fireproof Document Bag, 15x11

    The marriage certificate, both passports.

    ~$30 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Fireproof Document Bag (opens in a new tab)
  • Accordion File Organizer (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Amazon Basics Accordion File, 13 Pockets

    For RSVP cards, invoices and invitation samples as they arrive.

    ~$5 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Accordion File Organizer (opens in a new tab)
  • Good Pens (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Pentel RSVP Pens, 5 Pack

    For place cards, envelopes and thank-you notes.

    ~$5 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Good Pens (opens in a new tab)
  • Silicone Wedding Band (opens Amazon in a new tab)

    Our pick: Enso Rings Bevel Classic Silicone Ring

    For the honeymoon, the gym and working with your hands: the band grooms with a new gold ring buy within a…

    ~$25 (approximate)

    View on Amazon: Silicone Wedding Band (opens in a new tab)

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